At this stage of the game, getting anything is a treat.
So, the six of us are all ears (albeit some enhanced with tiny hearing aides).
My motto is: “Life is short – I’m not – send the tall ones my way.” My kids don’t think that’s funny either. Speed Dating at a Synagogue was a riot Fueled by Sangria and hubris, my bold sidekick, Kitty and I perched on our tin folding chairs.
Inquiring minds want to know and there is no pretense here.Understandably, some of my girl friends were extremely upset about her position. Then, if the relationship becomes serious, I would let her pay every now and then! A copywriter by profession, and a storyteller at heart, she dreams of one day going around the world to teach children how to read. Our very own When In Manila Angeline even wrote her own opinion in an article Why I Shouldn’t Focus on Finding a ‘Rich Boy’. Then I’d try to gauge if she wants to go ‘KKB’, like based on her principles. It shows that while you’re willing to take charge, she’s willing to contribute. Same principle with LRT seats: give out of generosity, not out of some compelling tradition of conceit. She likes going places, but since she's still saving up for her own car, she makes do with bus rides. Some were exciting, but most were washouts, like the one who “forgot” to bring his wallet. Recently, there was much fuss on social media about who should pay for the bill during a date. I’m not a huge fan of KKB on dates; it’s too business-like (unless that’s the kind of girl you’re going for, or you want to take things slowly); parang walang “transaction” between the two of you, and I don’t think it helps to build the relationship.
It all started when an influencer tweeted about how girls shouldn’t date boys who couldn’t take them out to movies or nice dinner places. It’s nice when the girl reciprocates with dessert or coffee, but there’s no need to do that all the time. And if you’ve been going out a while, treat the guy on his birthday. — Grant, 34 offer to pay, even though I wouldn’t let her. But deep inside, all this self-confessed fashion girl really enjoys are taking long walks, sipping green tea, and reading self-help books and shampoo labels.
Yung pag-impose na lalaki dapat ang magbabayad ng date expenses ay pyudal na parang pagsabing financial baggage ang kababaihan, at pagsabing walang karapatang magka-gf at makipag-date yung mga wala o kapos sa pera. Then later, pag medyo serious na, let her pay every now and then!