I asked if she did not feel the same way about me as she did. I feel like she is scared of our relationship for fear it may end up again like her last? And I don't just mean unresolved in regards to the divorce process being finished, but unresolved psychologically and emotionally.I have been treating her like I treat my other relationships, but I don't think she has been treated this well or nicely. I asked if she felt like she was missing out on some part of life of not being married? A typical scenario is that when people finally decide to separate, often after years of being unhappily married, they immediately start looking for more positive relationships.
Couples that are separated or in the process of divorcing have likely struggled with their relationship for a long time. Because of that it’s not uncommon for one or both partners to feel starved for affection.
Once it's been decided by one, or both, partners to end the relationship, most typically both partners start seeking a new relationship. If you really care about your new love interest then you'll apply more reason than emotion to your decision about dating while separated.
Being separated and not dating is one of the hardest temptations to resist. You'll also make your decision about more than just what you want.
It’ll also cause problems for the other person and their healing.
If the connection between the two of you is strong enough, it’ll survive the time he or she needs to become someone fully available and ready to commit to a new relationship.We get a lot of questions regarding separation, divorce, and dating.