Dating before marriage in islam

Romance, if not checked, may mean wasting time, effort and dignity. Besides, the concept of love in Islam is very unique, when a Muslim loves something or somebody, it must be for the sake of Allah; the same applies to hatred.The romantic notions that occupy the mind of young people often have proven in most cases to be unrealistic and harmful to those involved.In Islam, prohibitions against extramarital sex are strong and permissible marital sexual activities are familiar subjects.Marriage and concubinage are permitted sexual relationships and they are described in Quran and Hadith as great wells of love and closeness.The unrealistic expectation that young people have is what often contributes to the failure of their relationship.After being "involved" with a person for a time, and then breakiing up and going through the feelings of remorse or loneliness and unhappiness, and then moving on to the next "relationship" and then another break-up, hard feelings, sadness and then yet another series of dating, hanging out, breaking up and so on." prior to marriage, falling in love, arguing, breaking up and then going through the sad feelings and repeating this over and over, are much more likely to end up in a very rough marriage and very possible divorce.

The girl’s refusal to marry a person who has asked her hand in marriage, we suggest that, if such thing happens, the person in question can make efforts and seek all permissible ways to persuade the father or the guardian of the girl to give her in marriage to him.

One can also seek the help of the Imam of the Islamic Center where the girl’s father goes, to talk with him about this, and always pray earnestly to Allah to help realize the dream if it’s good.

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