Also, consider that the military men like them that way. I agree that you should try online dating but don't ever pay for these types of sites.
There are plenty of free ones, however, you run into the same problem with all of them: men far outnumber the women on these types of sites, particularly in Hampton Roads.
I like women who are honest, and girly - girl - just like me.
Even worse, there's plenty of uniform chasers who marry them, cheat on them, divorce them and collect their benefits.
I was disappointed to read about the women being rough = backstabbing, gossiping and just plan mean is a deal breaker for me living there.