The awareness a tool for understanding and manipulating his captive audience.If you Google, “Why do I like douche bags” the articles you’ll find are pretty dismal.That tiny little part of me believes that this is what I deserve, and that this is as good as it’s going to get. She believes that it makes sense that she’d have to work hard to gain someone’s love and that she should be happy that someone who clearly thinks the world of himself is even paying her attention. Those feelings are the small part of me wanting validation even if it’s validation in all the wrong ways.
It is familiar for me to want to deal with stress by tapping out of my day and gearing up with a Netflix binge.There’s a lot of throwing up the hands and saying: While I certainly enjoy a good challenge, have a penchant for taking on projects in all areas of my life, and have some deeply rooted issues that I’m currently addressing– these reasons slap the wrists of the women who admit to liking d-bags and then scoot them on towards the next douche bag because that’s “just the way it is.” My reasons for being involuntarily attracted to douche bags is a little more complex than shrugging my shoulders and continuing on to date the next d-bag just because that’s the way it’s been and that’s the way it will always be. There have been so many times over the years that I’ve felt like it was going to be my fate to end up in an unfulfilling relationship because I couldn’t seem to connect with someone who felt like an equal partner.