I looks like you have things sorted in your mind, so if you are not to happy with things at the moment what makes you think that things will get better if the relationship comes more permanent Annabella, run a mile.
Nothing to do with him being in the RAF, or the military as a whole, he's just stringing you along and you deserve better.
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Seems to have loads of time for his mates yet he doesn't put any effort into meeting up.